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The Anxious Generation book cover

Book

The Anxious Generation

Jonathan Haidt

This book documents the shift from play-based to phone-based childhood and the rise in teen mental health challenges.

SmartphonesSocial MediaAnxiety & Mental Health
Wait Until 8th campaign artwork

Website

Wait Until 8th

waituntil8th.org

A national pledge and parent toolkit to delay personal smartphones.

SmartphonesParenting Approaches
Common Sense Media Family Tech Planners page preview

Tool

Common Sense Media Family Tech Planner

Common Sense Media

Hands-on planning guides for device rules, app approvals, and family agreements.

Screen TimeParenting ApproachesSmartphones
After Babel newsletter preview image

Newsletter

After Babel

Jonathan Haidt

Ongoing essays and research updates on social media and youth wellbeing.

Social MediaAnxiety & Mental Health
Screenagers documentary poster image

Video

Screenagers

Delaney Ruston, MD

Documentary film about family life, devices, and emotional health.

Screen TimeAnxiety & Mental HealthParenting Approaches
HealthyChildren.org media plan icon

Tool

AAP Family Media Plan

American Academy of Pediatrics

Create age-based media boundaries and routines with printable planning tools.

Screen TimeSleep
AAP HealthyChildren.org – Media and Young Children

Research Study

Media and Young Minds

American Academy of Pediatrics

Policy guidance on screen use for young children and parent co-viewing.

Screen TimeSleep
ESRB ratings guide chart

Website

ESRB Ratings Guide

Entertainment Software Rating Board

Understand game content ratings and interactive elements before purchase.

Gaming
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Website

Common Sense App Reviews

Common Sense Media

Age and content reviews for apps, games, and social platforms.

GamingSocial MediaSmartphones
U.S. Department of Health and Human Services logo image

Research Study

U.S. Surgeon General Advisory on Social Media and Youth

U.S. Department of Health and Human Services

Public health advisory on youth social media risk and protective actions.

Social MediaAnxiety & Mental Health
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Article

How to Set Screen Time Limits That Work

Child Mind Institute

Practical scripts and routines for setting limits without daily conflict.

Screen TimeParenting Approaches
UNESCO favicon logo

Research Study

Guidance for Generative AI in Education

UNESCO

Frameworks for responsible AI use by students, teachers, and schools.

AI
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Article

How Students Should Use AI in School

KQED MindShift

Family-friendly guidance on when AI helps and when it harms learning.

AIParenting Approaches
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Article

Devices in the Bedroom and Sleep Outcomes

Sleep Foundation

Why overnight device locations matter for sleep quality and school readiness.

SleepScreen Time
AI Literacy Toolkit for Families – Common Sense Media & Day of AI

Tool

AI Literacy Toolkit for Families

Common Sense Media & Day of AI

A structured family toolkit with videos, slide decks, conversation cards, and simulation activities to build AI literacy together at home.

AIParenting Approaches
Stanford Youth Safety and Digital Wellbeing Report 2025

Research Study

Stanford Youth Safety and Digital Wellbeing Report 2025

Stanford Center for Digital Health

The 2025 Integrated Harm Framework from Stanford identifies 22 specific youth social media harms and provides policy and parental mitigation strategies.

Social MediaAnxiety & Mental HealthCyberbullying
Research Study

Research Study

The SHIELD Framework for Cyberbullying

MDPI International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health

Evidence-based SHIELD framework (Strengths, Healing, Interventions, Empowerment, Learning, Development) for parents and educators responding to cyberbullying.

CyberbullyingAnxiety & Mental HealthParenting Approaches
UNICEF Innocenti – Protecting Children in Online Gaming

Research Study

UNICEF: Protecting Children in Online Gaming

UNICEF Innocenti

UNICEF's 2025 working paper on protecting children from extremism, predation, and grooming in online gaming environments.

GamingCyberbullying
Family Online Safety Institute (FOSI) logo

Research Study

Connected and Protected: FOSI 2025 Online Safety Survey

Family Online Safety Institute

Nationwide survey findings on how families experience online safety, including what parents underestimate about children's digital activity.

SmartphonesSocial MediaParenting Approaches
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Tool

PTA Connected: Ready, Tech, Go! Workshop Guide

National PTA

Facilitator guide for PTA-hosted parent workshops covering AI scams, algorithmic deepfakes, and age-appropriate app settings for school communities.

Parenting ApproachesAISocial Media
Bark parental monitoring app

Tool

Bark Parental Controls

Bark Technologies

AI-powered monitoring tool that alerts parents to potential issues like cyberbullying, depression, and inappropriate content without reading every message.

SmartphonesSocial MediaCyberbullying
Google Family Link parental controls

Tool

Google Family Link

Google

Free parental controls for Android devices allowing parents to manage app approvals, set daily screen time limits, and track device location.

SmartphonesScreen Time
eSafety Commissioner – family tech agreement for under 5s

Tool

eSafety Commissioner: Family Tech Agreement (Under 5s)

eSafety Commissioner (Australian Government)

A printable family tech agreement template specifically designed for children under 5, with guidance on healthy early media habits.

Screen TimeParenting Approaches
Sharenting and your child's digital footprint

Article

Sharenting and Your Child's Digital Footprint

First Things First

Practical guidance on the risks of oversharing children's images and information online, and how parents can become better stewards of their child's digital identity.

Privacy & Digital FootprintParenting Approaches
The dangers of sharenting – Child Protection Global Network

Article

The Dangers of Sharenting

Center for Pediatric and Adolescent Gynecology Network

Explains how publicly shared photos and information can be used to create deepfakes, enable identity theft, and construct profiles of a child's routine.

Privacy & Digital Footprint
American Psychological Association – social media and adolescent mental health

Article

APA: Social Media and Adolescent Mental Health

American Psychological Association

Clinical overview of how social media affects adolescent mental health, covering both benefits and harms, with APA's recommended protective factors.

Social MediaAnxiety & Mental Health
American Academy of Sleep Medicine – screen time and sleep research

Article

Screen Time and Sleep: What New Studies Reveal

American Academy of Sleep Medicine

2025 research showing that each additional hour of screen use after bedtime raises insomnia risk by 59% and reduces nightly sleep duration by 24 minutes.

SleepScreen Time
CDC – screen time and health outcomes in teenagers

Research Study

CDC: Screen Time and Health Outcomes in Teenagers

Centers for Disease Control and Prevention

CDC study on associations between screen time and physical, mental, and behavioral health outcomes among US teenagers.

Screen TimeAnxiety & Mental HealthSleep
UNESCO AI competency framework for students

Research Study

UNESCO AI Competency Framework for Students

UNESCO

UNESCO's framework outlining essential AI competencies for students across four dimensions: human-centered mindset, ethics, applications, and system design.

AI
Internet safety for parents in the digital age – OUR Rescue

Article

Internet Safety for Parents: Guiding Children Through the Digital Age

OUR Rescue

Practical internet safety guide covering how predators exploit gaming and social media, with actionable steps parents can take to protect children online.

CyberbullyingSocial MediaParenting Approaches
Common Sense Media – family media agreement

Article

Introducing Technology Contracts to Your Kids

Center for Online Safety

Guidance on how to frame device use as a conditional privilege and structure a formal family technology contract with clear expectations and consequences.

Parenting Approaches
Common Sense Media – how to talk to kids about AI

Article

How to Talk to Kids About AI: A Family Guide

Canton Public Library / Bright Horizons

Family-friendly guide to setting AI house rules, including teaching children that AI is a tool not a friend, and establishing fact-checking habits.

AIParenting Approaches
Yale Medicine – social media and teen mental health guide for parents

Article

Yale Medicine: Social Media and Teen Mental Health - A Parent's Guide

Yale Medicine

Clinical guidance from Yale physicians on how to recognize social media's effects on teen mental health and when to seek professional support.

Social MediaAnxiety & Mental Health
Child Mind Institute – parenting and technology

Article

Positive Parenting in the Digital Age

Child Mind Institute

How to set up parental controls as part of an ongoing conversation rather than covert surveillance, keeping trust intact while maintaining appropriate oversight.

Parenting ApproachesSmartphones